Don't know what to say in your dating profile? Wondering how to contact a woman on a dating site to guarantee a response? I'll teach you better! With my coaching, you'll be getting more unsolicited e-mail from women than you can handle.

Being a ghost writer has its perks. It's always great to hear my clients' success stories. Starting to work on a client's dating profile write up and the profile headline, giving my recommendations on the pictures for a dating profile, and taking it all the way to a happily ever after. Sounds great, doesn't it? Maybe that's why I enjoy it so much. Helping people find happiness in a loving, fulfilling relationship is what I strive to achieve. My clients always give me credit and it is always a fantastic feeling to hear their success stories.

I really am blown away at the men who say they don't get any responses from women. Why not? My male clients get hundreds of unsolicited e-mails from women. Hundreds. Women contact them first, saying something to this affect "I was impressed with the way you described your ideal woman. What woman in her right mind would not be moved by what you wrote? You are a gifted writer!"

This is what I suggest my clients do when composing their dating profiles. Describe the ideal woman and the ideal relationship from a woman's perspective and you will be a chick magnet. A dating profile for a woman, on the other hand should lack all the pink rose bushes that we tend to plug into our dating profiles.

When you approach writing a dating profile from the perspective of the person you are trying to attract, you need to attract them with what they want. You simply cannot attract them with what you want. It doesn't work. Seriously, think about it. What if you are a woman who receives the following e-mail, "Hello. I love hunting and fishing, as well as watching a ball game on TV with a bag of potato chips. I'd love to meet you. What do you think?"

On the other hand, here is an experiment I ran a while ago on a dating site. I e-mailed twenty random men without reading their dating profiles saying exactly this: "I don't know what much to say, except I like drinking beer on a Sunday afternoon while watching a game on television. Wanna hang out?" Do you know what the response rate was? A hundred percent. Here is what one very handsome man wrote to me, "I've been on this site for a long time, but this is the best e-mail I've ever received!"

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